It’s Day Four of celebrating National Entrepreneurship Month at Acceler8Success Café. After spending the past few days discussing the definition of entrepreneurship, we will now look at today’s entrepreneurs and their thought process.
Today’s Entrepreneurs
The world around us has become so noisy that it’s easy to not hear opportunity knocking. In the past, opportunity presented itself in only a few ways… job offers, a referral, an ad in the paper. Business was regimented… 9 to 5, straight forward processes, slow to change, staying inside the box.
Well, technology along with our lost feeling of security, job and otherwise has provided us opportunities and reasons that we must keep our eyes open, explore beyond our comfort zones. We must maintain an open mind to create things of value, to control our own destiny, to diversify our income, to take calculated risk, and to think and act outside the box (of complacency, fear, and procrastination).
We’re in an environment where the visionaries continue to create the playing field but it’s only the doers who will win. Acting swiftly, yet decisively, albeit deliberately, often throwing caution to the wind, caring little about what others think of them and their decisions, maintaining a laser-focus to not only succeed, but to thrive. These individuals not only make things happen, but they also make them count, and in a big way.
They are today’s entrepreneurs.
An Entrepreneur Knows
An entrepreneur knows to wake up in the morning and immediately begin planning the day ahead.
An entrepreneur knows to do this despite having already done so the night before and possibly several times throughout the night.
An entrepreneur knows he or she will awaken hungry for results.
An entrepreneur knows new ideas will be churned and devoured by his or her mind each day, each hour, each minute.
An entrepreneur knows the hunger for success has no end.
An entrepreneur knows all too well the success bar will keep rising.
An entrepreneur knows personal expectations will continue to grow.
An entrepreneur knows the fire in his or her belly must be fed continuously.
An entrepreneur knows he or she must accomplish more and more each and every day.
An entrepreneur knows the hunger will persist no matter how much he or she bites off.
An entrepreneur knows to chew faster and faster to keep from choking.
An entrepreneur knows to survive and to succeed is to fuel the hunger, not curtail it.
An entrepreneur knows all this because it’s in his or her DNA.
Yesterday at Acceler8Success Café, as the celebration of National Entrepreneurship Month continued, I addressed the definition of entrepreneurship. It was quite interesting to research the multitude of definitions, explanations, and perspective on entrepreneurship. A well, it was eye-opening to see how the words entrepreneurship and entrepreneur are often referred to in an interchangeable manner.
Today, I’d like to share how individuals from various walks of life have expressed their understanding and perception of entrepreneurship.
Freedom to do what I want to do. Control my own destiny. Spend more time with my family. Take more vacations. Play golf as often as I’d like. Not having to be accountable to anyone. These are just some of the statements I hear all too often from individuals that want to be an entrepreneur. Or think they do!
When I ask them to define entrepreneurship, almost all respond with their thoughts of glory, reverence, and the materialistic aspects of success. I ask them to tell me what they believe an entrepreneur looks like. It’s interesting to hear most describe a middle-aged male wearing dark, fashionable clothes. They describe this person as having a tan and wearing sunglasses. Seemingly, they wear sunglasses all the time. Many reference the look of Mark Cuban and Ralph Lauren.
They describe entrepreneurs as being very cool and relaxed. An open collar shirt or expensive T-shirt is the order of the day along with a dark sports coat or suit jacket. Yet, they’re emphatic that it’s not what had been previously labeled as traditional business wear. No ties. Several were adamant that a golf-type shirt was unacceptable, especially with a country club logo. Although, a polo shirt with a name brand logo would be acceptable some days.
Interestingly, the responses are very similar from those 30-55 years old. The under-30 crowd are more inclined to describing a young celebrity appearance as their entrepreneurial success look. More interesting are the similar responses from men AND women. When I push women a bit to share their thoughts about the look of a successful female entrepreneur, I have found they tend toward explaining how the female entrepreneur acts, as opposed to how they look. It seems like they’re describing the Meryl Streep character in the movie, A Devil Wears Prada.
Considering the popularity of TV reality shows like Shark Tank, The Profit and Undercover Boss along with series like Billions and Succession and how business moguls (entrepreneurs) are depicted in the movies, it’s easy to realize how entrepreneurs in general have been stereotyped into the minds of many considering entrepreneurship today. Even across the Real Housewives franchise where some of the wives and most of the husbands have achieved varying levels of entrepreneurial success, the influence about entrepreneurship is front and center.
Sadly, what isn’t realized or showcased is the work and effort it takes to achieve entrepreneurial success. And what about the risks and hardships of being an entrepreneur? Dare I mention failure as an entrepreneur and its potential ripple effects?
That has me thinking, is entrepreneurship ultimately being harmed by misperception of what entrepreneurship is about – launching ideas, taking risks, solving social problems, innovating, creating jobs, etc.? As such, are tomorrow’s entrepreneurs being set up to fail due to these misperceptions? That’s a scary thought considering the popular opinion that it will be entrepreneurship that will save our great nation.
As we continue celebrating National Entrepreneurship Month, it makes sense to understand the meaning of the word, entrepreneurship. I say that it makes sense as there are varying definitions mixed in with perceptions and even some inaccuracies. After all, how could we possibly encourage the celebration of something without an understanding of what it is that is being celebrated?
So, what is entrepreneurship?
A search on Google of the phrase, Definition of Entrepreneurship produced “About 1,020,000,000 results” as posted at the top of the search page. That is over one billion results!
The first result, from Oxford Languages defines entrepreneurship as “the activity of setting up a business or businesses, taking on financial risks in the hope of profit.” That is simple enough, but too simple when considering the complexities of entrepreneurship.
Wikipedia takes things to a different level with the interchanging of the word, entrepreneur with entrepreneurship. Seemingly, one cannot be defined without the other. In fact, at the top of the page is the following message: Entrepreneur redirects here.
Their definition, comprising of four paragraphs, is as follows:
Entrepreneurship is the creation or extraction of economic value. With this definition, entrepreneurship is viewed as change, entailing risk beyond what is normally encountered in starting a business, which may include other values than simply economic ones.
An entrepreneur is an individual who creates and/or invests in one or more businesses, bearing most of the risks and enjoying most of the rewards. The process of setting up a business is known as entrepreneurship. The entrepreneur is commonly seen as an innovator, a source of new ideas, goods, services, and business/or procedures.
More narrow definitions have described entrepreneurship as the process of designing, launching, and running a new business, which is often like a small business, or as the “capacity and willingness to develop, organize and manage a business venture along with any of its risks to make a profit.” The people who create these businesses are often referred to as entrepreneurs. While definitions of entrepreneurship typically focus on the launching and running of businesses, due to the high risks involved in launching a start-up, a significant proportion of start-up businesses must close due to “lack of funding, bad business decisions, government policies, an economic crisis, lack of market demand, or a combination of all of these.”
In the field of economics, the term entrepreneur is used for an entity which could translate inventions or technologies into products and services. In this sense, entrepreneurship describes activities on the part of both established firms and new businesses.
On the tenth page of search results is an interesting article, A New Definition of Entrepreneurship. It defines entrepreneurship as “the pursuit of opportunity beyond the resources you currently control.”
The following search result, also on page ten is an article, What Is Entrepreneurship? Meaning, Types & Examples. The article states, “Traditional definitions of entrepreneurship define the term as the act of starting and scaling up a business from scratch. While this is essentially true, the modern connotations attached to this word have taken on a whole new meaning.”
It goes on with the question – What is Entrepreneurship? followed by the following explanation:
“The very existence of the term entrepreneurship differentiates it from the act of business. While business, as we know it, is at its core the buying and selling of products and services to turn a reasonable profit, entrepreneurship goes farther than the common concept of commerce. Entrepreneurship seeks to change the world by discovering opportunities where none previously existed. They convert new inventions into viable products and provide consumers with the means of meeting their needs.
At its very core, entrepreneurship is an approach to solving real-world problems, often with the help of technological breakthroughs.
As a result, the term entrepreneur applies equally aptly to persons who start entrepreneurial ventures as well as to corporate entities which take the steps to endeavor into uncharted business territory for the sheer pleasure of exploring something new. An entrepreneur is at heart a risk-taker who tries something new, and entrepreneurship an adventure for only the brave at heart and strong of mind.”
And I love the following which is a disclaimer of sorts:
“But what makes entrepreneurship so very different from ordinary businesses? To know this, we must delve deeper into the very characteristics of the concept.”
So, is entrepreneurship a description along the lines of craftsmanship and workmanship, implying a higher level of skill? Is entrepreneurship also a business model in and of its own as may be the implication of “being different from the ordinary business?” Or is entrepreneurship considered an interchangeable reference to an entrepreneur? Although, I am not so sure of the latter as I was taught early on not to use the word in the definition such as, a baker is a person who bakes. Stating that an entrepreneur is someone who engages in entrepreneurship just does not make sense.
Are you confused yet? I ask, as I believe I may be confused!
The ‘correct’ answer can be found on the fourteenth page of the search results. The result is an article, Definition of Entrepreneurship by Different Authors. I believe this may have been more relevant on the first or second page of search results. But then again, there is a few differing opinions – or just varying perspectives based upon firsthand experiences. I know, I may be grasping for straws here but why is that not a clear-cut definition of entrepreneurship?
The best way to understand entrepreneurship is to view the following video. It is one that I have shared several times before. Obviously, it is one of my favorites as to me, it is a simple definition albeit extended over 24 minutes or so. Although, entrepreneurship and entrepreneur are once again interchanged.
November is National Entrepreneurship Month in the United States, a time to celebrate the entrepreneurs who serve their communities and bolster the American economy. On November 15th, we also celebrate National Entrepreneur’s Day. In addition, during the week of November 14-20, we recognize the American spirit of entrepreneurship abroad by celebrating Global Entrepreneurship Week (November 14-20).
Starting today and running through Sunday, November 20th, I will expand my focus at Acceler8Success Café on entrepreneurship as a way of celebrating National Entrepreneurship Month and related activities.
I will also promote various levels of entrepreneurship including but not limited to small business, franchising, startups, and restaurants. As well, I will share insight and perspective on entrepreneurship and its expanding reach into various demographic groups.
Considering current challenges and economic uncertainty – and dare I say, recession – entrepreneurship as a path toward recovery will be addressed. After all, a recent article at Forbes.com,A Recession Provides Opportunity for Growing A Business provided insight that recessions are a great time to start a new business. Throughout history, recessions have been a driving force behind the creation of innovative and successful companies.
A Proclamation on National Entrepreneurship Month, 2022
According to the Proclamation at WhiteHouse.gov, during National Entrepreneurship Month, we celebrate the doers, dreamers, and job creators whose vision and grit fuel our economy and capture the essence of America.
Starting and owning a business has always been a key path to the American Dream — a way to build wealth, serve your neighbors, and leave a mark in a community and on the world. Requiring risk-taking and daring, entrepreneurs faced additional challenges during the pandemic and the economic crisis that it created. Two years ago, hundreds of thousands of small businesses closed, while others struggled to find workers and stock their shelves. But as we have recovered, Americans have responded with entrepreneurial spirit, seizing the opportunity to build new businesses and launch new careers.
According to NationalToday.com, in 2010 entrepreneur Siamak Taghaddos started a petition to create a National Entrepreneur’s Day. He didn’t understand how America, though considered the most entrepreneurial country in the world, didn’t already have a day dedicated to recognizing entrepreneurs. Six months and thousands of signatures later, President Obama proclaimed the last day of 2010’s National Entrepreneur Week as National Entrepreneur’s Day.
NationalDay.com also references Global Entrepreneurship Week as a global celebration of entrepreneurship that occurs in the second week of November, from November 14–20 this year. During this week, people from various countries worldwide come together through local, national, and global events to create solutions for worldwide economic growth.
So, as we move forward to celebrate entrepreneurship, let’s start with an understanding of how entrepreneurship has played a pivotal role in our nation going back to 1776.
Thomas Paine, an English-born American political activist wrote The Entrepreneur’s Creed. He also authored two of the most influential pamphlets, Common Sense (1776) and The American Crisis (1776-1783) at the start of the American Revolution and helped inspire the Patriots in 1776 to declare independence from Great Britain.
I find it interesting that Paine somehow looped in entrepreneurship with the politics of the day. It almost sounds like what’s going on across our country today. Especially, as it’s been repeatedly stated that entrepreneurship is the backbone of American ingenuity, and it will be entrepreneurship that will drive our country’s recovery.
Yes, it’s interesting in that I see things coming full circle since 1776. It’ll be even more interesting to see if the next 250 years will parallel American History.
Freedom. Independence. Entrepreneurship. The combination of the three… What a novel idea!
Before we know it, the new year will be upon us. Questions are likely already coming to mind. Have both personal and business goals been achieved for this year? What of the New Year’s resolutions set earlier this year? Of the various goals and resolutions that missed the mark, what happened? What went wrong? Of those that did hit or exceeded the mark, what made the difference?
These are questions that must be answered to springboard into the new year. A plan must be in place well before January 1st to get off on the right foot. This means that there’s work to do between now and year’s end. Of course, the upcoming holidays can be a distraction.
And although it is important to spend time to get together and celebrate with family & friends, it is essential that work-life balance be maintained. Except, as the focus throughout the year is to ensure ample time is spent on the life part of the equation, now is the time to make certain the work component is not ignored.
A word to the wise… do not procrastinate! Do not push off planning until after the holidays lest the opportunity of moving forward as the ball drops over Times Square will be delayed. And, delaying attention to the tasks at hand for the time between Christmas and New Year’s celebrations is a recipe for disaster. Diligence will be lacking in the effort to just get it done.
With today’s challenges and economic uncertainty, there is no room in our lives for if, can’t & try – just do, as where there is a will, there is a way if something is wanted bad enough. It all comes down to commitment… relentless, unparalleled commitment!
Anthony Robbins says, “There’s always a way – if you’re committed.”
Yoda, of Star Wars fame said, “No! Try not. Do. Or do not. There is no try.”
And of course, Nike may have promoted it best with, “Just do it.”
The new year is a chance to start over – a fresh beginning. It is a good time to set new goals, change old habits and try new things. It is also a great time to revisit wishes, hopes, and dreams. If we do not use time wisely to get out of our comfort zone and our state of complacency, we will remain right where we are. Therefore, we must start our new year today, not in January.
I’ll leave you today with the following quote from Albert Einstein. I trust it will spur thoughts that I hope will be helpful as there are lessons to be learned in his words – actual ones for the world we live in today, and subliminal ones that can help us personally.
“Let’s not pretend that things will change if we keep doing the same things. A crisis can be a real blessing to any person, to any nation. For all crises bring progress…
Creativity is born from anguish, just like the day is born from the dark night. It is in crisis that inventive is born, as well as discoveries, and big strategies. Who overcomes crisis, overcomes himself, without getting overcome. Who blames his failure to a crisis neglects his own talent and is more respectful to problems than to solutions. Incompetence is the true crisis…
The greatest inconvenience of people and nations is the laziness with which they attempt to find the solutions to their problems. There is no challenge without a crisis. Without challenges, life becomes a routine, a slow agony. There is no merit without crisis. It is in the crisis where we can show the very best in us. Without a crisis, any wind becomes a tender touch. To speak about a crisis is to promote it. Not to speak about it is to exalt conformism. Let us work hard instead…
Let us stop, once and for all, the menacing crisis that represents the tragedy of not being willing to overcome it.”
Have a great week ahead. Act swiftly. Act decisively. Make it happen. Make it count!
When the future is fogged and ahead lays opportunity but risk, it is better to tread a careful path through the uncertainty than to wait for the mist to clear, if it ever does. – Anonymous
Sometimes we can barely see across short distances such as is often the case with early morning fog. However, if we’re pointed in the right direction, having positioned ourselves just right, we’re aware of what lies ahead.
Whether it be from past experiences, or by following a detailed map, or even by using our senses to realize points of reference, we must trust we’re moving in the right direction. Often, intuition kicks in prompting us to make slight changes in direction. We must trust that gut feeling and act accordingly — but we must prevent from wandering aimlessly off track and into the unknown.
Much can be said about life as a journey. It’s mostly clear sailing with occasional storms that can be navigated with minimal, yet steady effort. Until, of course, we’re faced with a category 8 hurricane or F5 tornado when just surviving becomes our primary goal.
“Confidence is something you create when you believe in yourself.” – Anonymous
We must have unwavering confidence in our plans and also in our abilities. We must listen to our intuition. We must make changes swiftly and decisively. We must make it happen. We must make it count!
The mantra of Acceler8Success Group is to act swiftly, act decisively, make it happen, and make it count.
So, how does one do so in the face of fear?
“There’s nothing to fear but fear itself” is a very true statement. Unfortunately, that may be easy to comprehend but it’s not easy to act upon. Fear in hearing no makes the salesperson drag out the sales process. Heck, maybe is better than no is actually the justification.
However, the longer the salesperson hangs onto maybe the more time is wasted — time that could be used on realizing other opportunities including actually closing other sales. Of course, there are similar situations outside sales.
Doing nothing when a definitive decision is necessary is often due to fear in making the wrong decision. Not asking a question because of fear the answer is not what you want to hear. Fear causes wrong decisions, procrastination and so many different things that are certainly not progressive or proactive.
Typically, it starts a domino effect of reacting and like dominoes, once they start toppling over it’s difficult to stop the momentum… and quickly, it gets away from you. So, realize your fears, act decisively and move forward, but don’t let fear paralyze you.
Conquering Fear
Fear can only be realized as we’re able to admit being scared. It’s only with that admission and realization that we can work through fear and hopefully, overcome it. As fear is such a strong emotion that easily grips the soul, it takes time and patience to overcome such a grip. Little by little, fear can be replaced by courage gained from confidence that fear is just a challenge to be conquered.
Although, conquering fear does not have to be done alone. Instead, collaborative efforts aligned with common goals truly exemplify the phrase, ‘strength in numbers’ and it’s that strength that will make it easier to defeat fear. Easier said than done? Possibly, but the alternative is being overwhelmed by fear and that, we recognize, is not living…
Talk to a friend or a colleague today about your fears. Doing so will go a long way toward realizing that there truly is nothing to fear but fear itself.
Conquering Fears to Becoming an Entrepreneur
Have you ever dreamt of becoming an entrepreneur?
If you answered yes, what’s stopping you?
If it’s because you’re scared, then you’ve got company. Fear is the most common reason people fail to start their own businesses. Fear of the unknown, fear of failure, or fear of losing the steady income from their day job.
Of course, there’s a good reason for all of these fears. Around 50 percent of small businesses fail within five years, so it’s no wonder people hesitate to pursue their dreams of entrepreneurship.
Making the decision to become a full-time entrepreneur and go “all in” on my startup was one of the hardest but most rewarding experiences of my life. If you’ve got big ideas for a business but fear is holding you back, read about some steps you can take to move past those worries and start your entrepreneurial journey HERE.
“Do not fear mistakes. You will know failure. Continue to reach out.” Benjamin Franklin
A positive person focuses on what’s good in their life, finds joy in the simple things, and takes the general attitude that while there are lots of things they can’t directly control, they can control what they choose to focus on. Positive people can inspire and influence others to reframe and to think about things differently. They can be infectious in a good way.
Beginning each day on a positive note can increase your productivity and even improve your overall health. Time to get those positive thoughts flowing! Starting your day off right has always sounded like a nice idea, but now a new study indicates that “waking up on the wrong side of the bed” is more real than ever.
Positive & Motivational Quotes: A second voice that echoes our thoughts, beliefs & claims.
If you spend even a short amount of time on social media you’re bound to come across a quote or two. I’m sure we could divide quotes into quite a few categories but to me, it’s really just three categories. Quotes that either motivate me, inspire me, or those that spur my emotions.
Mind you, I’m not referring to memes. I’m talking about quotes from influential and famous people, from movies, books, and the like, and from individuals that actually write inspiring words and place them on beautiful images.
Quotes can open our eyes and minds to understand truths and acknowledge things we might otherwise have missed. They let us see life from another, wider perspective, and in this sense, they expand our mind and awareness.
A quote can spur us to reflect as they may be applicable to a specific task or event occurring in our lives right at that time. Reading quotes can improve how we feel and change our mood for the better. Often a quote can offer inspiration for the day or week, and inspire us when our normal motivation has lapsed.
Quotes can act as reminders to focus us toward a specific goal or plan of action. Either as a short sentence or as several sentences, quotes are typically easy to memorize. As such, we can refer to them often and as we may be so inclined, share with others at appropriate times.
Inspirational quotes can remind us to see our mistakes and setbacks as great learning opportunities, and provide comfort that there is nothing that we can’t learn from. Rather than living in the past and recycling old news, we gain support to move past our regrets and learn from them.
Another reason we love inspirational quotes? They affirm what we already know (or think we know) about ourselves. One of the greatest human motivations is our desire to be able to both fit into categories or types of people, and to feel like we’re in good company (and, often, limited company) once we’re there.
Interestingly, scientific research has shown that motivational quotes make us feel the same as actually accomplishing something. If that is correct, then that could be a very, very, very bad thing.
Quotes, especially on social media can be quite distracting as there are just so many that are shared every day. I do value the ones where the person sharing the quote actually shares their own thoughts about the quote.
A good quote can be the heart of a compelling article, an interesting story, or a compelling speech. As such, good quotes help to tell a story and enhance the credibility of a press release, news story or speech.
Words that are crafted well can leave a lasting impact on us, while similar words presented by us can leave a lasting impression on others.
11 Reasons to Read Positive & Motivational Quotes
Motivational quotes motivate, inspire and encourage.
Motivational quotes energize and prompt you to take action.
Positive quotes create optimism and hope.
Motivational quotes give insight and wisdom.
Motivational quotes offer hope.
Positive quotes bring light and happiness into our day.
Motivational quotes teach.
Motivational quotes open the mind to see life in a wider perspective.
Motivational quotes are mood changers.
Positive quotes inspire you to adopt positive thinking and take positive action.
Reading motivational quotes does not require effort.
*Credit to Remez Sasson, author of the blog post, Motivational Positive Quotes – 11 Reasons to Read Them at SuccessConsciouness.com.
With recent news of a Chick Fil A franchisee being creative with a 3-day work week, I thought it’d be interesting to revisit a prior article at Acceler8Success Cafe, Is a 4-day work week realistic, practical, feasible across the board?
Let’s start with the article about the 3-day work week…
Last month, Lindsey received 429 applications in one week for just one full-time position. Surprisingly, the biggest draw wasn’t the competitive wage — it was the three-day workweek.
Read the complete story, Chick-fil-A operator introduced a three-day workweek, and applications are pouring in HERE!
Now, let’s revisit…
Is a 4-day work week realistic, practical, feasible across the board?
The discussion about a 4-day work week continues to heat up. Hardly a day goes by that I don’t see an article debating the pros and cons, as well as the “necessity” of having an additional day off from what has been the typical 5-day work week for years. It’s interesting to read different perspectives on the topic. From business owners to executives to salaried staff to hourly employees, all seem to be making strong points whether for or against the movement.
I first became aware of a 4-day work week back in 1978 when I moved to a small town just outside San Antonio. USAA, one of the world’s largest employers in San Antonio at the time and still today, was on a 4-day work week. I thought, what a great idea. Of course, at the time I was only thinking about it from the perspective of an hourly employee.
Oh my God, 3-day weekends, every weekend!
As someone who has mostly worked in a home office for the past twenty-plus years, I really don’t have a set work schedule. Actually, I do but what I don’t have is a set schedule to end my workday, or for that matter, even to start the workday. Sure, we could debate the premise of entrepreneurs working 16-hour days, 6-7 days a week as being ridiculous and unnecessary, and essentially being nothing more than a foolish badge of achievement but let’s keep that for another day. I promise we will address it here very soon.
Today, let’s look at the 4-day work week from the small business owner’s perspective. Is it feasible to operate the typical small business only 4 days? For the most part, the answer is no. After all, the business will need to be open 6, if not 7 days a week. It’s certainly a different situation than that of an office setting for a major corporation that could essentially close an extra day like a weekend day. Or schedule overlapping shifts and remain open 5 days a week.
Yes, there are options and probably some very creative options to make it work. Or are we really talking about moving to a 4-day work week but keeping daily schedules at 8 hours, at the same wage as for a 40-hour work week? With already slim margins at the typical small business, that seems impossible to even consider. For restaurants, I don’t see any way it would be possible.
That all said, I am an advocate for a 4-day work week at 8 hours per day. In certain work environments, I can see how it could actually increase productivity as some of the case studies have proven. A 4-day work week could go a long way to improving employee wellbeing and mental health. Yes, I could see the benefits, but I can also see the pitfalls.
Personally, I envision the 4-day work week as an option. For some companies it could work. I just don’t believe it can be something that would work effectively across all industry segments and especially, in a society that is driven by instant gratification and convenience. Therein is the key.
I believe the 4-day work week would have had more of a chance of being successful across the board back in the day, when weekends were days of leisure, family and worship.
Many businesses were closed on Sundays and workers had the day off. Saturdays were for errands and chores and dealing with things that weren’t done during the week. People stayed close to home washing their cars, mowing their yards and grabbing a few things at the local grocery store.
Customer-facing businesses were open, typically until 5-6 PM but banks, offices, etc. were closed on Saturday. So, it was mostly small businesses that were open. For businesses that were open on Sunday such as bakeries and restaurants, they closed early on Sunday and all-day Monday, as well.
Of course, that is not the case today as we are accustomed to being able to do what we want to do and at any time during the day. We’ve even grown accustomed to stores being open on major holidays, late hours and 7 days a week. Do we really need to shop at 6AM the day after Thanksgiving or shop for furniture at 10PM or for anything on Sunday? Certainly not, but it is what we want. It’s what we command.
If off from work an extra day per week, what would we do that day? Would that extra day be like the typical weekend is today with us running from store to store, almost at a frantic pace? If work schedules revert to a 4-day work week, will extra workers be necessary to man the stores and restaurants? Will some people look to take on an extra job with an extra day off, thus killing the notion of the extra day being necessary for one’s wellbeing and mental health?
I really don’t believe there is a one-size-fits-all solution. Yes, the 40-hour week should be an option, but it cannot be the rule of thumb across the board. That is, unless our mindset as a society reverts to the way it was back in the 1950’s. I just don’t see that we can revert back to living an Ozzie & Harriett life again. I, for one will not be wearing a tie for dinner while sitting at my dining table? I look forward to your thoughts, so please don’t be shy!
“No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.” – Nelson Mandela
According to Merriam-Webster, hate is defined as intense hostility and aversion usually deriving from fear, anger, or sense of injury; a systematic and especially politically exploited expression of hatred.
Without going down the politics rabbit hole, I’ve been mesmerized by the hate being exhibited in every corner of our nation. I’ve refrained from using the word great to describe our country, as the last time I did I was lambasted with comments about defining our country as such.
For the record, and quite frankly, I do believe the United States is a great country. If anyone doesn’t believe it to be so, well, I respect their opinion. However, all I would ask is that they look at other countries throughout the world and just make some simple comparisons before turning their opinion to judgment of others’ opinion.
In any event, this morning I find myself reflecting upon Nelson Mandela’s quote and the word, hate. I really do hate that word. I truly hate that it’s in my vocabulary. Hate in that sense is not the hate I’m referring to or what Nelson Mandela was referencing.
Maybe my mind is wandering a bit this morning because growing up Catholic I recognize that today is All Saints Day. Again, not trying to go down any rabbit holes, including the religion rabbit hole, but my mind wandered off to when I was 6 years old and attending St. Mary Mother of Jesus School in Brooklyn, NY.
Instead of celebrating Halloween we celebrated All Saints Day. We dressed up as the saints we may have been named after or as a saint we had learned about in class. It was a simpler time and hate certainly wasn’t in our vocabulary. At least hate as we know it today.
I remember attending camp in Coney Island and recall befriending kids from different backgrounds. Although, it’s only now looking back that I thought about the differences. Back then, we were all just kids with no prejudices whatsoever. We all got along very well and couldn’t wait to see each other the next day.
A few years later as my Mom remarried, we moved from our Italian neighborhood to one that was predominantly Jewish, and alongside low-income housing. As one might imagine, there was definitely some diversity in our school but overwhelmingly, my class was almost all Jewish.
In fact, I recall being one of only three kids in class during the Jewish holidays – it was me, Mary Ann Yip and Ruby Hope. Mary Ann was Chinese-American and Ruby was African-American. We, along with our Jewish friends, all got along. I don’t recall hate being in the equation despite us living in the mid to late-sixties amidst racial unrest televised seemingly non-stop.
Two years later we moved to Staten Island and to a neighborhood that wasn’t as diverse as the neighborhood we had left, but the schools had varying levels of diversity. I played basketball against junior high schools that were mostly black. Parish church teams, as well. Sure it was competitive but we all got along.
In eighth grade I was fortunate to play on the Junior High School All-Star team. The team was to play the Staten Island Junior High School champion. Well, the champion team had red uniforms, as did my school. So, when I was put in the game, I had to wear a different jersey, one that was not red.
Ken Washington, a player from another school offered me his jersey. It was light blue. I entered the game and scored a quick basket. A few minutes later during a timeout, I came to the bench and Ken, whom I had not known before except for playing against him, put his arm around me and jokingly said, my basket was the result of the luck of his jersey. We laughed. Ken was black, and back then, I didn’t give it a thought. We all got along.
Fond memories, for sure. All of them. And I’m glad I remember each one to this day!
However, thinking back and reflecting upon the Nelson Mandela quote above, I’ve realized that although the quote is true, it’s very eye-opening. Sadly, I can certainly say I wasn’t always innocent. I’m not sure when I had changed, or why.
Embarrassingly, there have been times when I’ve laughed with the crowd at the expense of others and made decisions that I now know were based in part upon what were clearly prejudices. Yet, I’m confident I can say I’ve never hated because of skin color, gender, age, background or religion.
I guess I always felt if I didn’t hate, I wasn’t prejudice or exhibiting discrimination. I was also going to mention not ‘disrespecting’ but I as I’ve gotten older I realize that disrespect is exhibited in a number of ways. So, yes, I have disrespected, as well. No excuses.
All that said, I’ve learned that being a good person is not about being politically correct. It’s not about any reason or justification whatsoever beyond just being a good person, and just one person in a world of equals.
My regret is only realizing all of this in recent years. My goal is to be a better person, not by trying to be better, but by being better intuitively because we should not have to try to be a good person.
A thought comes to mind – we know the opposite of hate is love, but maybe the opposite of hate should also be respect? After all, one of the definitions of respect is, due regard for the feelings, wishes, rights, or traditions of others.
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