
I recently heard a C-level franchise executive say, without hesitation, that he hated franchisees. The comment lingered with me far longer than it should have, not because it was shocking for shock’s sake, but because of what it quietly revealed. People do not arrive at hatred casually. Hatred is not a momentary reaction or a throwaway frustration. It is the final stage of a mindset that has been forming for a long time. What disturbed me most was not the statement itself, but the culture that must exist for that statement to feel acceptable, even logical, in the speaker’s mind.
Franchising does not function without franchisees. They are not adjacent to the model. They are not downstream participants. They are the model. Every location opened, every customer served, every employee hired, every dollar earned in the field is the direct result of a franchisee’s daily decisions and personal risk. When a franchisor reaches a point where resentment replaces respect, the system has already drifted far from its original intent. That drift rarely announces itself. It happens quietly, through small decisions, unchallenged assumptions, and leadership habits that go unchecked.
At the heart of the issue is a fundamental misunderstanding of what franchising actually is. Franchising is not a control mechanism disguised as growth. It is not a way to scale without responsibility. It is not a license to dictate without listening. It is a partnership model built on shared risk, shared reward, and shared accountability. When that truth is ignored, franchisees stop being seen as entrepreneurs and start being viewed as obstacles. Once that mental shift occurs, every disagreement feels like defiance, every question feels like resistance, and every challenge feels personal.
Culture always reveals itself through language. If an executive can say he hates franchisees, what language is being used internally when franchisees are not present? How are they described in meetings, emails, and private conversations? Are they talked about as partners trying to succeed, or as problems to be managed? Are struggles in the field treated as signals that support systems need improvement, or as proof that franchisees are incapable of execution? The answers to those questions define whether a system is built on leadership or control.
Many franchisors reach a stage where complexity increases and patience decreases. Growth brings pressure. Pressure exposes insecurity. Insecure leadership often responds by tightening its grip. That grip shows up as heavier compliance, stricter enforcement, and less tolerance for feedback. Over time, franchisees learn that speaking up carries consequences. They learn that silence is safer than honesty. When that happens, leadership stops hearing the truth and starts hearing only what reinforces its own beliefs. Eventually, frustration grows on both sides, but only one side holds the power to label the other as the problem.
What is often framed as “franchisee issues” is frequently a reflection of broken trust. Franchisees push back when they feel unheard. They resist when they feel disrespected. They disengage when they believe decisions are made for corporate benefit at the expense of unit-level viability. Compliance problems are rarely about rules. They are about belief. Franchisees comply more willingly when they trust that leadership understands their reality and acts in the best interest of the system as a whole.
There is also an uncomfortable truth that rarely gets acknowledged. Franchisees represent accountability. They live with the consequences of corporate decisions in real time, in real markets, with real financial exposure. They are the first to feel when a new initiative increases labor strain, compresses margins, confuses customers, or complicates operations. For leaders who equate authority with infallibility, that feedback feels threatening. Instead of being seen as insight, it is experienced as opposition. Over time, frustration with feedback turns into resentment toward the people delivering it.
When resentment sets in, leadership often seeks refuge in metrics and mandates. Numbers replace nuance. Policies replace conversation. Legal language replaces leadership presence. The system becomes more rigid at the very moment it needs flexibility. Franchisees feel the shift immediately. Calls take longer to return. Support becomes transactional. Communication becomes defensive. Trust erodes quietly until it becomes visible through conflict, attrition, or stagnation.
The most dangerous franchise culture is not one filled with loud critics. It is one filled with quiet survivors. Franchisees who stop offering ideas. Franchisees who no longer attend meetings with optimism. Franchisees who comply outwardly while disengaging inwardly. That culture does not produce excellence. It produces mediocrity protected by contracts. By the time leadership openly expresses contempt, the damage is already well underway.
It is worth asking why anyone would choose to franchise a brand if they fundamentally resent franchisees. Franchising demands humility. It requires the ability to lead people you do not employ, influence outcomes you do not directly control, and accept that your success is inseparable from someone else’s execution. Leaders who crave absolute control will always struggle in this model. Their frustration is not with franchisees. It is with the nature of shared power.
Healthy franchise systems are built on respect without illusion. Respect does not mean appeasement. It does not eliminate standards or accountability. It means recognizing franchisees as capable business owners whose perspectives matter, even when they are inconvenient. It means understanding that disagreement is not disloyalty and that questions are often a sign of engagement, not resistance.
Every franchisor should periodically confront a simple but revealing question. If you were not bound by contracts, if renewal were optional tomorrow, would your franchisees choose to stay? Not because of sunk costs, but because of trust, belief, and alignment. Culture is what holds a system together when legal structures are no longer the primary glue.
A franchise executive who says he hates franchisees is not simply expressing frustration. He is revealing a worldview. That worldview will shape decisions, communication, and priorities, whether acknowledged or not. It will influence how support is delivered, how conflicts are handled, and how success is defined. Over time, that worldview becomes culture, and culture becomes destiny.
The real work for franchisors is not fixing franchisees. It is fixing the environment in which franchisees operate. It is examining whether leadership behaviors invite partnership or enforce obedience. It is deciding whether the system values truth or comfort, collaboration or control. Franchising does not fail because franchisees are difficult. It fails when leadership forgets why franchisees exist in the first place.
Franchisees are not the enemy. They are the evidence. They are the living proof of whether a brand’s promises, systems, and leadership philosophies actually work. If contempt has replaced curiosity, the solution is not more enforcement. It is deeper reflection. Because the moment a franchisor begins to hate franchisees is the moment the franchise model itself is being quietly dismantled from within.
About the Author
Paul Segreto brings over forty years of real-world experience in franchising, restaurants, and small business growth. Recognized as one of the Top 100 Global Franchise and Small Business Influencers, Paul is the driving voice behind Acceler8Success Café, a daily content platform that inspires and informs thousands of entrepreneurs nationwide. A passionate advocate for ethical leadership and sustainable growth, Paul has dedicated his career to helping founders, franchise executives, and entrepreneurial families achieve clarity, balance, and lasting success through purpose-driven action.
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